Alright—let’s talk lashes, because I’ve been hearing some things lately…
Not even about you—about your friends 😅
I’ve had people sit in my chair and say,
“Okay I need to tell you… so-and-so has lash extensions and they look… not good.”
Or, “Their lashes fall out in like a week—is that normal?”
And I’m like… no. That’s not how that’s supposed to go.
So if you’ve ever thought lash extensions just don’t last, or they’re not for you, there’s a really good chance it’s not the lashes—it’s how they’re being applied or taken care of.
If lash extensions are applied correctly, you should be getting at least 2 weeks of wear, sometimes closer to 3 depending on your natural lash cycle and how you care for them.
And when I say that, I don’t mean they’re going to look absolutely perfect the entire time.
You might have a few that have fallen out, maybe a small gap here or there depending on your natural shedding cycle. Things like allergies, weather changes, and everything we’ve had going on lately can definitely affect your lashes too.
But you should not be completely bare or feel like your lashes are just gone after a few days.
Application matters—a lot. Lash extensions should be applied one extension to one natural lash. Not clumped, not stuck together, not heavy clusters sitting on multiple lashes. When lashes are too heavy or improperly placed, they can cause breakage, poor retention, and long-term damage to your natural lashes.
The lashes I do are meant to be lightweight, healthy, and wearable. We’re not trying to have lashes flying off your face. We want full, soft, natural-looking lashes that actually last and keep your real lashes healthy underneath.
And yes—over time, improper lashes (like clusters or lashes that are too heavy) can cause damage. Think of it like when we all over-plucked our eyebrows back in the day… eventually they just didn’t grow back the same. Same idea—you’re putting stress on that follicle over and over again.
Now let’s talk about the part people don’t always want to hear… but it matters.
You have to clean your lashes.
And I don’t just mean splashing water on your face and calling it good.
Your lashes are on your face for a reason—they catch dirt, oil, makeup, dust… all of it. If you’re not cleaning them, that buildup sits right at your lash line. That breaks down the adhesive, affects retention, and can even lead to irritation.
You should be cleansing your lashes regularly with a gentle, lash-safe cleanser. And yes—I do carry cleanser that is safe for your natural lashes and your extensions, because if you’re using the wrong products, you can actually be breaking down the adhesive and removing your lashes faster without even realizing it.
When you clean them, you don’t need to scrub or be aggressive. Be gentle, work through the lashes, rinse well, and let them dry.
If you ever want them cleaned at your appointment, we can absolutely do that—but what you do at home is just as important.
Also—brush your lashes.
You should be brushing them daily… honestly multiple times a day, especially after you shower, sleep, or if they get a little crazy throughout the day. It keeps them looking fluffy and prevents them from twisting or clumping together.
And let’s talk about skincare around your eyes, because this matters more than people think.
When you’re applying things like eye cream, be mindful of where it’s going. You don’t want to load up your lash line with heavy or oily products, because again—that can break down the adhesive. Keep it light, keep it controlled, and avoid working directly into the base of your lashes.
Now let’s talk about makeup, because this is another area that can really affect your lashes.
Eyeliner matters more than people think.
Those hard pencil or stick eyeliners can be really rough on your lash line. When you’re pressing and dragging that across your lid, you’re putting pressure right where your extensions are attached—and that can cause them to loosen or pop off faster.
If you’re going to wear eyeliner, stick with something softer like a liquid or a more gentle formula, and be light-handed with it. You don’t need to be digging into your lash line.
And taking it off is just as important.
When you remove eyeliner, you want to be gentle. No aggressive rubbing, no picking at it trying to get every last bit off. Use a gentle, lash-safe cleanser and work it through slowly. If you’re fighting to get your makeup off, that’s usually a sign the product you’re using isn’t lash-friendly.
Same goes for foundation and concealer.
A lot of people don’t realize this, but when you’re applying makeup, it’s really easy to get product sitting right along your lash line. That buildup can collect in your lashes, affect retention, and make your lashes look dull or clumpy.
So when you’re doing your makeup, just be mindful of that area. And when you’re cleansing at the end of the day, make sure you’re actually getting that product off your lash line—not just your cheeks and forehead.
Mascara and lash extensions really don’t mix.
Especially with volume lashes, mascara causes clumping and is extremely hard to remove without pulling, tugging, and damaging both the extensions and your natural lashes. Even with classic lashes, it’s usually not worth it.
If you feel like you need mascara on top of your extensions, that’s usually a sign we need to adjust your lash set—not add more product.
Also be mindful when removing makeup. No aggressive rubbing, no picking, no going in like you’re trying to scrub your face off. Be gentle.
Other things that can affect your lashes are things like rubbing your eyes, allergies, sleeping on your face, hormones, and just your natural shedding cycle. All of that plays a role—but again, your lashes should still be lasting longer than just a few days.
Now let’s talk about something else that doesn’t get talked about enough—fills and actually being able to get in.
If your lashes are falling out in a week and then you can’t get in for another 2–3 weeks… that’s a problem.
Because life happens.
Sometimes you go through a heavier shed.
Sometimes allergies hit.
Sometimes you cry more than usual.
Sometimes you mess with them when you know you shouldn’t… it happens.
But that doesn’t mean you should be stuck waiting weeks to feel put together again.
I am very aware that lash fills typically need to happen every 2–3 weeks, and I do my best to be as accommodating as possible when things don’t go as planned.
If something happens and your lashes don’t look how they should, I will get you in. We’ll figure it out. I’ve moved things around, squeezed people in early, and yes—even done Sundays when needed.
Now as far as pricing goes, I do have a 4-week fill policy. If it’s been longer than 4 weeks, it’s considered a full set again—that’s pretty standard.
But if something comes up and timing gets tricky, I’m not here to leave you hanging. I do everything I can to get you in so you’re not walking around feeling like your eyes are naked—because once you’re used to lashes, you know 😅
At the end of the day, lash extensions should make your life easier—not frustrate you.
When they’re applied correctly, cared for properly, and customized to you, you should have full, low-maintenance lashes that last between fills and keep your natural lashes healthy.
And if something feels off… it probably is. And we can fix it.
Because if it’s something we talk about in the chair…
it belongs here.
— From the Chair
